6 Mistakes You Make in Bed

We all make mistakes when it comes to sex and a cool lesson about the major mistakes we all make in bed will be helpful to avoid them in the future. It’s a responsibility of both partners to cooperate in having a healthy, exciting and fulfilling sex life. Appropriate exercising and willingness of both partners are crucial to have a great sex together. Scroll down and read about 6 fatal mistakes men and women do in their beds and how to avoid them.

6-mistakes-you-make-bed-personal-developmentTo expect from man to be able to think like a woman. It’s not only a waste of time but also the cause for conflicts and tensions. Men’s and women’s brains function different and this is the main reason why communication between the partners is so important.

To expect that he or she will read your thoughts.
Your partner, no matter how well he or she knows you, can’t read your thoughts and the other way around -  you can’t read her or his thoughts. That’s why you have to describe your sexual needs and wishes with words to her/him.

Relinquish the initiative.
Many men love it if woman takes over the initiative. There are millions of options to show partner how sexy and desired he/she is. Short call or a nice romantic dinner can be great opportunities for this. Women – surprise him with sexy underwear – men just love this.

Don’t give up spontaneity. Talking about sex, men just love, when woman is spontaneous. Give him a hug in the morning, before he leaves the bed and tell him, you really want a beautiful start of the day. You’ll not only surprise him but totally entrance him.

Bedroom only sex. Monotony kills sexual life. Use kitchen table, a couch, car, bathroom or any other place that you can imagine to have sex. Don’t fear to experiment.

Sex deduction. Using sex as a tool to manipulate with your partner is really a bad thing. It isn’t the sense of sex, which is really a tool to stay close and mutual pleasure. On the other hand, you also shouldn’t have sex, when you aren’t in the right mood.

About the Author:

Mark Hanselich, MPharm - I try to be as versatile as possible. I graduated in pharmacy, work as journalist, play soccer, have my own wine cellar and can communicate in six languages. I'm also personal development author and internet marketing specialist. Together with Mr. Daniel Maxoff I run the Website Anioc.com, dedicated to personal development, health and all the good things in our lives. You can also follow me on Twitter.

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2 Responses to "6 Mistakes You Make in Bed"
  1. Damaysi Vazquez December 7, 2009 22:23 pm

    Please post more about this. Expand in the part about not expecting men to think like us women. Please expand on this and on everything else!!!!
    Love it!

  2. Successmate December 8, 2009 05:24 am

    This is a great psot Mark. Very informative. Thanks for posting.

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